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Post by enuf3 on Dec 1, 2006 16:03:11 GMT 10
Well there is no need for him to feel down.. he has a sort of kinf of girlfriend thing.... even though he is 100% gay, and wants to be with a man.. but still. Wait, you and the girl are still sort of kind of together, right?
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Post by natalia on Dec 2, 2006 14:41:24 GMT 10
That is true.. I think he said that she believes they are still together. Hm.. Hopefully it doesn't end badly for her if she finds out the truth.
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Post by shallowboy on Dec 2, 2006 14:58:17 GMT 10
well, not technically together, but since shes broken up her 3rd engagement!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just last month, i kinda think she still has a thing for me ... in a way i guess i couldnt expect mattie to be single forever..but hearing he has a gf is like a major blow to the stomach... i dont know what to say anymore...seriously... *speechless*
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Post by enuf3 on Dec 7, 2006 15:34:54 GMT 10
Oh dont worry about it. All is good. I'm still here.. I'm still chirpy Matty Matt Matt. *does a dance*
Yeah, okay, that was totally against everything I believe in.
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Post by shallowboy on Dec 8, 2006 0:01:54 GMT 10
yay, the Matt-ster is back online...w00t w00t good to hear from u pal... and yea, u do sound like a changed man....i can so tell
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Post by natalia on Dec 15, 2006 14:38:12 GMT 10
Love will change ya. Hehe.. People do crazy things when they find someone they care greatly for.
It's kinda sad.. but me boy already says "you're right. You're always right" when I say something as an alternative to what he said, or if I make a suggestion. ?He is soooo cuttteeee.. Sorry.. A little stressed. Exam #1 is tomorrow.
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Post by shallowboy on Dec 16, 2006 23:25:42 GMT 10
good luck with the exams hun.. and awwww bf sounds so cute... i want one... man, ive never been in a mutual relationship.....having fake girl relationships suck, and its totally unfair on the girl....i hate faking it! makes me so mad...cant imagine what it feels like to like someone for real and to hav them like u back...must feel so good
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Post by natalia on Dec 20, 2006 4:14:37 GMT 10
*hugs* You'll find someone one day. Maybe your family will become much more accepting one day?
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Post by shallowboy on Dec 20, 2006 14:09:56 GMT 10
i dont think so dude...when hell freezes over! maybe! they just wont..trust me, they wont...
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Post by natalia on Dec 24, 2006 15:43:03 GMT 10
Well.. Two Komodo dragons BOTH female, managed to have babies WITHOUT a male present. Both of them had a few eggs that hatched.. Which was not thought possible.. So maybe something good will happen for you? But I think you said even if science proves it is something genetic, and not a choice, that makes people gay your family still won't accept it? The only reason people stopped accepting it is because the population was dying out, and same-sex sex didn't produce offspring.. Bah. If penguins can be gay and it is acceptable, why can't it be the same for people?
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Post by shallowboy on Dec 24, 2006 23:58:56 GMT 10
errrr..i love how u compared my real-life situation to komodo dragons and penguins! yea, it sucks, thats life...whatya gonna do! either i can 'bite the bullet' and live out my life with a chick i dont love - have babies and just suck it up (tho id love to have children , i really do ) OR i can continue doing what im doing (having NO relationships) and just dream bout them.... crap = who knows..maybe in the new year, the world will change...stranger things have happened...(yea right!)
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Post by natalia on Dec 25, 2006 5:08:52 GMT 10
You never know dear, don't give up hope! Some people are not accepting of such things, but over time they change..
You never know if you'll meet a girl you love, just not love in the same way you'd love a guy, just are really close to and all.
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Post by shallowboy on Dec 25, 2006 23:58:17 GMT 10
i once thought i could like girls that way...but in my head, id just imagine kissing em, dating em, the whole nine yards...all that stuff EXCEPT the sexual stuff..
i dont know why, but i could hav a perfectly fine relationship with women if it didnt inlcude sexual stuff....
i just couldnt handle it...sex with women turns me off...tho holding hands etc is just fine with me....
does that make me bi? or just gay but in need of companionship?
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Post by natalia on Dec 27, 2006 16:36:46 GMT 10
Hm. I don't know what that would make you. I have a friend who is like that as well. He says he slightly bi, but mostly gay.
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Post by shallowboy on Dec 28, 2006 0:27:56 GMT 10
sound like me...! and ermmm - is your friend still willing to make new friends...with ermmm me perhaps heheh is he my type...? hold on, lets see, hes prob white, american and male...yea, hes my type! tell him i said hi and Merry Christmas and a good new year 2007
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